So my wife and I are new to the LS. We’re both in our early 40s. We have been together for two decades. For about a year we would fantasize about her having another cock. She also has a kink for virgin dudes -- she gets off on the idea of taking their v-card. Well fast forward to this week, she met someone in a sub who is local. They talked for a good week. She surprised me today saying how her and the v-boy were going to meet tomorrow at a park just to see if they vibe, but at the last minute she told me he had cold feet and so connecting with him is no longer a go. No worries, she just shrugged it off and didn't care as we both expected this could happen and appears to be quite common in the LS.

From reading through this sub, she ended up getting on the Feeld app and it has blown her away how many likes she has received. Some of the guys were pushy and responded with a snarky comment like, "well I don't have time for that" when she basically wants to first meet a potential 3rd to see if they have some chemistry. I see nothing wrong with this at all. But all good, she just moved on no biggie.

Our communication has been very transparent and always has been. Her first experience she wants is a white cock. She connected with a potential 3rd who is out of state as they both "liked" each other on Feeld. Things have progressed to the point she is currently talking to her potential white bull on the phone. I vaguely heard them talking about arranging a flight so her bull comes to our state. They both already shared pics. He shared his long thick cock and she shared her tits and kitty. Her potential 3rd later sent her a small video of him blowing a huge load. She was so aroused by it. I really had no idea what sexual things they were both talking about on the phone, but after the call she described it a bit.. So far the bull has been a gentleman — not being pushy or rushing anything at all. He told her he has been a 3rd for other couples before.

I know this is common for someone new to the LS, but my god my nerves are through the roof. My anxiety is through the roof -- but not in a bad way at all. For the longest time she was all about monogamy, but since role playing for a good year and now sexting with her first contact (the v-boy) her sexual desires have exploded. She loves knowing she is becoming a slutty hotwife and is at a point in her life where she openly told me she wants to have fun with other men. When she gave me head, she told me how much she loves sucking cock and how much she wants to suck another man's cock. After her first experience, she really wants to experience another non-white bull. I am very turned on by her hotwife pursuit and have been supportive and letting her make the decisions. She'll run some things by me, but she gets the final say.

I really just needed to get this off my chest. I appreciate this sub as it has taught us both a lot and I'm sure we will continue to pick up more things as we go. We aren't rushing at all, she is mainly testing the waters to narrow down who she will possibly decide to connect with. If she does end up connecting with her white bull IRL, I will be present to watch (not necessarily join). It is so exciting for me because I can see how she is having A LOT of fun talking to different guys. She loves being desired and I love that she is exploring this side of her sexuality.

I appreciate any kind of advise that might help us navigate the life better especially for a first experience with a bull. She has already set boundaries like no creampies, testing required, no making out (although a kiss on the lips is fine). She definitely wants to find someone who is consistent as her and I both agreed we don't want a bunch of 3rds. Thanks for reading!