CA couple, married, both in 30s. Discussed with the wife and she has expressed in the past that we should experiment with open marriage and I brought up the idea of swinging and she was excited by the idea. We even play in bed with toys of her taking another dick while she gives me a blowjob. Whenever I have brought up the idea of going to a swingers club she becomes very hesitant and says she feels uncomfortable due to her perception of her body size (I think she looks amazing and sexy). Does anyone have any experience on how to get past this hump. I feel like guy would hit on her if we were to go to a club but i meed her to believe this too. Thanks in advance.