I'm in an open marriage. I have been with other women and my wife with other men. When it comes to her and other guys the jealousy and competition make me want her more and even perform better. She doesn't actually have to fuck them. She could do flirt, wear revealing clothing or tell me what she wanted to do while I remind her her slutty pussy is mine. It's not so much the act of her fucking other guys. She always wanted me to be rough with her which I can only get into if she is being slutty. Her sex drive was much higher before we started doing this but has since evened out. Or mine went way up and she never turns sex down but she's not trying to initiate anymore with me not wanting to.

But when we dirty talk during sex about these fantasies she cums really hard talking about scenarios where I am making her fuck X guy or humiliate her for being a bitch which leads to us fucking her. I don't think we are compatible on this. If she wants to fuck some guy just do it and tell me about it while I fuck her.

I have realized she likes being used by men. One fantasy we both have is for a guy she has a crush on that we use a lot in dirty talk spending the weekend and both of us just taking her whenever we wanted to cum. I told her I would like her to try to stay fresh and try to stay hydrated and look sexy just wearing lingerie or anything sexy with easy access to her holes and we would just be rutting all over the house all weekend. I recover fast if she is doing the right things. With her getting fucked by another guy I think I would be ready to go as soon as he got tired. I would love to wake up in the middle of the night to her getting pounded out and just make her suck me while I just laid there and watched. Or walk in the kitchen and him have her bent over the counter when she was trying to cook breakfast using her pussy to relieve his morning wood. By the end of the weekend I would love to see her worn out and tired of sex for once. Or sore and needing a break for a few days.

Do other women fantasize about things like this often?