We use another reddit account to do meets with others, and to share photos and stories of successful meets.

Yesterday, I posted a short video clip of my wife pegging me. We often get a lot of interest from other guys who would love to explore this kink.

Well, one hotwife forum removed the post and threatened to ban us. I tried to have a respectful conversation to make sure that I understood their rules, and their take was that pegging is "obviously" not hotwifing, and perhaps that wasn't the subreddit for us.

To our way of thinking, if the wife is having sex of any sort with other men, it's hotwifing. We aren't just running some kink operation - my wife would peg the guy, the guy would fuck her. To us, it's kinky sex, sure... but it's sex, and it seems to naturally fall under hotwifing.

Was that reddit mod just a little prudish here? Or do you think that we are off base?

Note: we 100% respect the rules of various communities. Even though that community did not list this as content that wasn't allowed (and we have, in fact, posted pegging pics there before), we will of course respect their moderation and not post that there again. I'm just a little curious what this community might think about the subject.