After months of going back and forth on the topic the wife finally admitted to me that the idea of a MFM turns her on. Which is a huge step because she’s very shy and conservative in terms of sex and was always afraid I would judge her. It’s not something she’s dying to do. And is okay if it never happens but admitted that she would be okay with it as well and does have secret desires to experience it one time.

This all changed after she experienced one of her best orgasms ever recently with a larger dildo. I don’t know that the tone of our conversation changes without that experience. But since she has admitted to it being her best orgasm ever and if we do decide on a MFM she wants to experience a larger cock.

The ball feels that it’s kinda in my court. I don’t plan on rushing things for either of us. I do still want this to happen and the idea still turns me on. I want her to experience pure ecstasy and potentially stronger orgasms than I can provide. The orgasms I’ve seen from the toy have been the hottest thing I’ve ever seen. But I do get post nut clarity after and kinda bummed that I can’t do that for her. Our sex life is great but physically there are just some things I can’t do that the toy can. And that’s awesome. That’s why I got it for her.

My concern, is her having the best sex ever and me just getting in funk about it. I want her to experience that I really do. But I’ve read a lot of the forums and understand that it hits different in person lol. Any advice to help me navigate with that reality?

I feel very secure in our relationship. I know it’s just sex. And our sex will still be great. I guess I just worry that I won’t be needed sexually after this experience. Or wanted or craved the way she craves and desires me now. Any female advice would be great because I’m sure other males have felt this way. Thanks in advance.