For context, I introduced this kink to my wife about 3-4 years ago. She went through the typical shock (thinking I want to sleep with other women), disgust (thinking I don’t love her), etc. But then, over time, she understood that I legitimately just want her to be as sexually satisfied as possible. We’ve taken many small steps so far (bigger dildo, anklet, role playing, podcasts, cock sleeve, writing MFM erotica for each other, joking about it usually once a week or so). And recently, she took the initiative and packed her hotwife anklet on her own for a recent kid-less vacation! Of course, that got me excited but I wasn’t going to push it too hard.

My question is: should I take this as a sign that she really could possibly go through with it? And what would be another small, gentle step for her to gain comfort? Am I out of options? I just truly want her to have fun and be comfortable!