I often see questions about how to first broach this idea to your significant other- and wanted to share how I eased my wife into this idea since it's been going so well for us.

Initially, when we first got together we of course talked to each other about kinks- I didn't come out and tell her "I want other guys to fuck you!" For obvious reasons. Instead I told her I liked public/risky places when we had sex, and I liked her going out in revealing/provocative outfits- both wanting to show off my hot girlfriend and enjoying when she turned heads.

This definitely built up her confidence, and she continued to get more and more risqué. Finally after being together just over a year, we once again started talking about kinks after a few glasses of wine- and I told her I think a three way would be fun, but with all the focus on her. A mfm. She was initially pretty surprised, but that idea took root and seemed to turn her on. We started adding that scenario in to dirty talk while we fucked, and she got more and more into it. I'd have her suck on my fingers as I railed her from behind or as I ate her out. She started to go crazy for the idea- and it was actually her who said we should try and make this happen.

Goes without saying that trust and rules are very important. But it can go so well if you're both on the same page!