I (53) have wanted my wife (50) of 26 years to be a hotwife all along. For me it was being able to experience visually her amazing sexuality without having to facilitate/perform as well as just sharing what an amazing sexual being I am fortunate to have marry me. I was very open about that from the beginning.

Years and kids caught up with us and our sex lives and waistlines suffered.

Fast forward to now, she recently had WLS and is seeing the physical benefits while we are both enjoying a renewed sexual awakening. She has said some things that makes me think the inner hotwife is peeking out or at least tapping on the door a bit.

My question is for the hotwives here. Did any of you have a former, heavy life before becoming a hotwife? We’re any of you resistive of the idea when you were heavy but your mind opened as the weight came off? Was it the attention from outside persons that made you think about it?

I appreciate all of you hotwives for being here and sharing.