Hi! I’m a newly hotwife, as hubby and I just had our first experience last Friday. We were lucky and my husband found a great, respectful first bull and I was surprised how much I enjoyed the entire experience. I was very hesitant at first and it took a lot of convincing me since learning about my husband’s desires going on 3 years now.

Now that we’ve officially opened the door, my mind is racing with excitement and possibilities of all we could explore together.

We are both 35 and after much careful thought, we have decided that we’d like to try for one child together. We don’t want to keep kicking the can down the road for various reasons, but I do worry if we will still be able to juggle this new lifestyle (that I’ve discovered I am SUPER into) with a baby and all the other demands of life. Things will certainly be put on hold while pregnant, which is fine. It just makes me a bit sad to think of everything that might change or that’d we’d possibly have to give up. In the end, nothing is more important to me than our relationship, which is even stronger now that he can be open with me about this LS.

Would love to hear from couples in a similar boat or just hear how the dynamic shifted (if at all) adding kids to the mix!

Thank you.