We are getting ready for wife’s first experience. We are meeting third this weekend and if there is a connection, she wants to move forward. She has been texting him through Feeld with me being a part of all communication. Here is a list of rules that we have put together for the experience. Thoughts?

Our hard no list:

1.  no means no. If at anytime wife becomes uncomfortable, immediately stop the action being done. 
2.  No anal sex. 
3.  Condoms for any PIV sex unless fully tested within 4 days of interaction. 
4.  No degradation or humiliation. Dirty talk is fine but no terms like slut, whore, bitch, etc. She deserves respect at all times. 
5.  No humiliation of husband. He is not into cuc, and loves/respects his wife. He is allowing this to happen for her pleasure as well as his sexual satisfaction. This is a contract of mutual respect between 3 people. 
6.  No forceful or painful face fucking during oral. Let her determine comfort level and flow of action. Tell her when cumming and let her make decision about what to do with it. 
7.  Husband is NOT into any male/male interaction but may want to participate in DP action if wife feels it. She is in control of what happens. 
8.  Open and honest transparency is key in these situations. No texting behind husband’s back and extreme care needs to be taken to ensure that this remains a sexual relationship and does not evolve into a loving one. We are married. This is meant to be fun and exciting, but strictly transactional. If either party starts to feel otherwise, it needs to be shut down immediately. 
9.  No overnights or single dates without husband present at this time. If things develop into a FWB situation down the road, and both husband and wife agree, perhaps. 
10. Let wife determine the intensity of any sexual act or position. No painful, degrading, or overly aggressive actions. Read the room and let her response dictate the flow. 
11. Kissing is fine but make sure it is consensual. 
12. Treat her like the goddess she is. 
13. No direct texting between wife and new  sexual partner. Communication needs to be done in app for full transparency.