Im 30yo my wife is 29yo we have been together for 8 years and have dabbled in the hot wife lifestyle for a majority of that time on and off again. Recently she has started seeing a new man and they have really hit it off like never before. They have been on several solo dates and have hooked up about a dozen times now. None of which I have been present for since he is not interested in me being involved yet. She seems infatuated with him right now always texting him and spending a lot of time with him. She seems like she’s is happier and more confident in herself since she started seeing him. I don’t consider myself bad looking but her bull is much more attractive than I am, more fit and more successful than I am. And from what she tells me he is much bigger than me and there sex is mind blowing. My wife is a petite short blonde in amazing shape with a nice ass and boobs and honestly out of my league. The more they see each other the more the desire in me grows for the two of them to actually fall in love with each other. I keep pushing her to spend more time with him and for him to be her boyfriend. I know she loves me and says she will never leave me but I want her to have that passion and intimacy that comes with the feeling of true love when she’s with him. Am I heading down a dangerous path or is it possible that she can actually be in love with both of us and maintain this dynamic?