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I’ve been a hotwife for 8yrs. I now find myself in this situation for the first time.
I have feelings for my fwb. I wasn’t looking for it but it just happened. I have told my fwb how I feel and while he hasn’t said he has feelings for me, it’s apparent he does too. He respects my husband and my marriage and he would never overstep and try to make me be with him and I have no desire to leave my husband for him. I just want them both.
I see him solo(my husband prefers this) and I do take pics and videos for my husband. My husband can tell that this fwb is different and it’s definitely made him insecure. I reassure him all the time that I love him and I’m not going to leave and I truly enjoy my time with both of them and he should not see my fwb as a threat.
I’ve asked him if he wants me to end things with this fwb and he says no because he says he can see how happy he makes me and he wants me to be happy and he does find the videos and pics hot.
It’s a hard spot to be because i know and my fwb knows that a relationship between us would never ever work for various reasons but we have feelings, both just enjoy each other and the sex is incredible! Sexual chemistry like nothing I’ve ever known before.
Not really looking for advice just had to share the truth of what is possible when engaging in this lifestyle.
I wasn’t sure I could ever love 2 men but apparently I can. I love them both, I want them both.
You have two choices do the right thing back off with the FWB and then evaluate or end up divorced
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Great advise