I read a lot of positive post regarding the LS and I genuinely believe a lot of experiences are wonderful. What about the darker side of the LS, the emotional risk taking we all openly participate in?

For instance, has anyone M or F in the LS become unintentionally emotionally to deep with there third, dare I say fall in love? If so, how as a couple did you work through this challenge, or did it end in hurt feelings and divorce?

I’m sure those stories are out there. My wife and I recently had our first sexual experience with our third and it was fantastic! We did have the talk. “What if, he or you become emotionally attached?” We went into the LS with clear communication and boundaries, that this is for our relationship to grow and not to grow attachment with another. A mutual friendship and respect between all involved is of course preferred, but not a true deep emotional tie.

Experiences and suggestions are greatly appreciated!