My hubby does a lot of the weeding out. If he doesn’t like them then I really don’t even try to chat after that. It’s hot that he finds me good ones

I've been approached by husbands, but my wife is the one that does the arranging. She's a dominant cuckquean and she prefers to interview the wife and husband before going any further. It really helps to have both spouses involved in my view. My wife will suss out whether or not the husband is the pushy toxic type manipulating the wife. And she's going to gauge if the wife is really on board or just doing it to please her husband. More importantly are they looking for a FWB or just a one time screw. I don't bother with one time screws. I can get sex at home to my heart's content.

I love my spouse being in charge of screening people. Ultimately it's my choice, she just brings me options on a silver platter. As the one being shared, it brings me comfort to know that she's picked suitable playmates. It shows she shares the responsibility and that it's something she wants me to do.

Hardest thing to deal with is the husbands asking if she wants to fuck too. And my wife has to calmly explain that she is strictly monogamous, because she's a cuckquean - her kink isn't fucking other men, it's a kink for reclaiming me after other women have drained me.