Wife and I had a marriage slump. She had a single on trip affair. We reconciled. Turned me on intensely

later on she opened that during good chunk of marriage she would enjoy dancing w men (younger ) and sometimes make out a them. Never more. Makes her feel alive etc etc.

we’ve visited club Before. Same room play etc. I’ve told her re Hw fantasy and she engaged the fantasy w me but now is giving me “I just want your penis “ vibe

clearly she has this inside of her IMO. She doesn’t need to cheat to get it.

anyway interested in hearing stories about if any wives here had similar transition.

some “infidelity “ event /past eventually turned into HW or MFM experience down the road and how you mentally reconciled the want to keep marriage solid and this new journey.

thanks