Told my partner about my fantasy of a MFM a few months back. She didn’t freak out but wasn’t necessarily with it either.

Fast forward, she had attended a bachelorette party a couple of months ago. I decided to give her a hall pass. After much conversation she said she was about 20 percent into the idea of a hall pass. It didn’t end up happening but later on after other conversations she admitted it was more 50/50 on her using it. She even shaved for the occasion. Which was exciting that she was into more than she initially let on.

We’ve proceeded to have sex with a dildo a few different times. And a couple of times have been incredibly hot. She’s even admitted to it being fantastic and loves cumming with me or the dildo in her mouth while the other one rails her.

She eventually admitted she wouldn’t hate the idea of a MFM but we haven’t talked about it much since. Even with her mild excitement in the hall pass and all the fun we’ve had roleplaying she will get upset about half the time I bring up a threesome or even using the dildo.

I’ve told her if it truly bothers her just say the word and I’ll never bring up the threesome or using toys ever again. But she’s never said that. I know that she enjoys the toys more then she lets on and potentially the idea of a MFM as well but I don’t want to keep irritating her. Has anybody been in a similar situation? And what helped ease those conversations?