Hello Everyone, me(36m) and my wife(36) have been married for 12 years and together for 21 years. We are each others high school sweeties. Been lurking on HW and LS for a long time and have discussed and role played with her for so long. Initially it was a hard no from her, but since after the kids she is more open to talking about it from past two years. We have chatted with a few couples we met here but nothing materialised IRL due our logistics considering kids and family.

Now that we have moved/moving to Germany(she is still back home waiting for visa and all), in this temporary long distance we have come more closer when it comes to talking about LS/HW in general. We love each other very much and have a really good sex life with no complaints whatsoever.

So here's the thing, we now regularly talk about a 3sm or soft swap with couples and her being with a guy alone. I want to understand from the beautiful and experienced couples/folks here about a recent thing that happened with her, which is, she was out for some shopping and she told me she found a guy really attractive sexually and physically and kinda got the hots for him, when I asked her she was literally blushing, it was an instant hard-on for me and we had some nice Skype sex session later in the night.

The question, I want to pose is ,what is going on in her mind ? - as she told me "we will see what happens when she is here". Is this is a sign of something positive or I'm I just overthinkingly happy about it - which I am.

Open to any interpretations and suggestions. DM's are also open.

Thanks.