I started this account with a post about my wife slowly becoming a hotwife with a guy from work who has the hots for her.

Quick update on the last time they met at the office (only once a week), she wore this mini-dress that emphasized her hips/butt, lacy thong, no bra but with a cardigan on. She tried to work but she felt the tension between them whenever he's around. he would casually slide his fingers on her legs when nobody's around, or give her sides a gentle squeeze. She said she enjoyed those parts of her day.

Her plan was she will drop him off again outside but stay for a bit in the parking lot to talk or whatever. But she was hoping for a kiss and hug at the very least. Anyway, while she was driving, John would run his fingers on her inner thigh teasing her and asked if he could check if she's getting wet. Wife said to stop or she can't concentrate with the driving. I find this odd. If the tension has been building throughout the day, she must've been easy to get turned on right? She could've said to wait when the car has stopped. Anyway, nothing much happened at the parking lot. Guy had to leave right away. He just gave her a hug and she gave him a peck on the cheek. Going home she was kinda disappointed that nothing really happened. She teased him with a pic of her pussy under her dress with the thong on her hand saying, "you missed this".

At this point, her interest in John is slowly dwindling. She told me that she still wants the attention he's giving her but for some reason, she's just not getting aroused or motivated to return the same effort of attention he's giving. The 2 video calls, while fun, got old real quick as she's simply not getting turned on. While he has a nice body and huge cock, it wasn't enough to get her juices flowing.

I asked her maybe hotwifing is not for us. Maybe she just enjoys the banter with other men, but she can't imagine having sex with them. She told me maybe. Or maybe it's just this guy. I told her an experienced third would be a better option if there's a next time. She's not closing the doors to hotwifing but she will be friendzoning this guy.

I'm kinda glad that this didn't pan out because of the "work" situation as others have pointed out (thank you). We did learn a few lessons and she discovered a lot about herself. That she's hot and there are still other men who would find her attractive. That a hot bod and a huge dick doesn't automatically work for her. She would enjoy a good buildup or sensible discussion here and there, or just a guy who knows his way around words/actions. She needs to be more careful with her emotions though if we're to engage with another guy in the future.

Sorry there's nothing juicy to tell really. I did ask her what she would be looking for in this lifestyle if sex is not the primary thing? She said she still likes the attention and being able to tease. I asked if she would like me to share her photos online, so other guys can appreciate her. She said no. Maybe with the right guy? One thing she would bring up multiples times is the thought of fulfilling John's request of seeing her in a red lacy lingerie but we just didn't get around to taking photos for him. I asked her what if a guy would buy her some nice lingerie or fitness outfit, would she be a willing model for him? She said maybe, if she likes him too.

Anyway, it's an ongoing discussion for us. Maybe we can start again with just chatting. I don't want to push her into this. Will wait till she's fully over with John. Thanks again to everyone who gave advice and shared their experiences.