First off, to be clear, my husband is well aware. I am not asking for advice on how to cheat…. Moving on

A situation has come up in where I’m going to be working on a small project with a guy who I know is single and I find very attractive. However both my husband and I do not want him to know that we’re a little freaky! 🤣 so our other option as we see it is to play the “cheating wife” role.

We also feel this route will ensure he keeps things low key as he probably wouldn’t want to ruin this opportunity.

I’ve worked with him in the past, and although he has never once made a move or crossed any lines, we both think he’s definitely got the hots for me.

Our concern is that he will eventually want more than just a FWB as he might not understand that this is something that’s just for fun.

For those who have played this role before, how do you keep the other man from eventually wanting more?

Also, any suggestions on how to let him know that even though I’m married I’m available for “fun”. Like I said I don’t want to just come out and say that my husband’s OK with it.