Pretty much as the title my bf recently discovered that he is really into seeing me flirt, sext and kiss other men.

We’ve been together for more than 2 years, and thru all this time we have fantasized a lot about having threesomes as we’re both bisexual, and we have now agreed to explore this curiosity (we still haven’t been able to find a 3rd for the threesome) but additionally, now he discovered his interest in seeing men flirt with me and sext with me. He enjoys a lot reading my sexting, we’ve gone to bars to get men to flirt with me and even kiss, still hasn’t gone much further but he says he would be down watching me suck their dick and them to fuck me. and most importantly seeing me enjoy the whole thing.

He is not into the idea of letting me go with other men (neither am I since this is new to me and since we are a monogamous relationship it still feels weird doing things with other men, feels like i’m cheating but i’m not) It’s not all the way hotwife, but its similar I think, he wants to be there the whole time and watch, this has been really hot for us, but since he just discovered this he has also been a bit ashamed of this crazy/kinky thing he likes. I’m willing to explore and do anything for him and I try to always make him feel safe and not ashamed of his likes.

Can anyone tells us their experiences with this, what exactly is the thought process and the attractiveness to this particular thing? I am also curious to understand why this is hot for him, and he also wants to understand it better as well.

Thanks in advance!