Read a post that got me thinking. Posted a comment but thought I would repost for direct engagement.

Been experimenting in the lifestyle for a couple of years now. First guy we find turns out to be a great fit and we had a very quick threesome on my wife’s birthday, literally like an hour before we had to pick up kids from school. Only distance and a busy schedule as disadvantages with this guy. We thought we would continue to look as it was almost a year after we saw him a second time. My wife and I vetted a few guys and a few of them got to play with us, but didn’t go anywhere longer term. We finally are able to host the first again, another quick session. They have only had one quick solo session. Last week, we had another threesome but yeah, we were done in 30-45 minutes. I have been toying around with the thought of her having a sleepover with him. I trust her without a doubt and trust that she will be physically safe with him. He has experience as a stag in a previous marriage and has always been very respectful.

I have been teasing the idea of a sleepover with both of them. For a couple reasons:

1. ⁠I think that them spending some time together will let her develop a sense of sexual comfortability and further enhance our play of all of us together. She is a little shy when he actually shows up. Once we get started that switch is flipped.
2. ⁠I find it incredibly hot thinking about what they would do with that time together. Would they even sleep? Would he feel the urge to take her during the night? And in the morning again? I can imagine them spooning and him stiffening to find her pussy moist to take him again. She’s not on birth control so that temptation to take him raw is incredibly erotic (I know she wouldn’t do that).
3. ⁠It’s a night away with hot fun. She has a lot of responsibilities in life. She deserves a night away from the kids and to be able to live in that fantasy of naughty wife for a while. I feel I have a deep sense of compersion so far. If she would enjoy this experience, then I would too.

Just the thoughts of a horny husband distracted by the sexual escapades we landed ourselves in. Anyone find benefits of a sleepover?