About a year ago while out on a date night the topic of fantasies came up over drinks. It was at this time that I confessed that I had always found the idea of her with another man a huge turn on for me. At first she was a bit surprised. Afterwards, every once in awhile during intimacy she would bring it up on her own, which led me to believe she secretly found the idea exciting as well but it’s a big jump to take.

Last Saturday we got a babysitter for the kids and went out for our monthly date night. While having drinks I brought up the idea of her going to the next place 15 minutes earlier, and sitting at the bar to see if she got any male attention. She laughed but agreed, liquid courage helped I’m sure.

When I arrived there was a man sitting beside her who had bought her a drink. I sat back and watched for awhile. Eventually they parted ways and she came and sat with me. I could tell she loved the attention.

That night we had the hottest sex we’ve had since we were first dating. This morning she texted me about my fantasy, saying she thinks she’s ready to try if I still want to do it. I’ve been hard at work all day, can’t really tell anyone about this so I’m venting here. Can’t wait for what’s next!