My wife and I have have been together five years. we often fantasize about MFM threesomes, or her being with another man while I watch. We are both very turned on by the idea and the sex is fantastic when we fantasize about this. We have talked about the possibility of making the fantasy of reality but honestly, neither of us is sure yet. So far just enjoying the idea and seeing where things might lead. The gist of this post is the person she would pick if it did become a reality. She was married for 20 years prior to our marriage now. She was in an unhappy marriage for most of that time as was a coworker of hers. Call him T. They became great friends. They confided in each other and commiserated about their struggles in their home lives. They also became attracted to each other and flirty, tongue and cheek workplace banter was commonplace. Over the many years of working together they developed romantic feelings for each other. Both were committed to being faithful spouses, however so they never allowed any physical interaction with each other at all. Long story short, as my wife’s children got older she filed for divorce and became single. T however remained in his marriage. Fast-forward a couple of years and we met and eventually got married. I have met T and he’s a great guy. They are still very good friends he comes and visits occasionally and we all go out and have a great time. Nothing sexual. About a year ago T‘s wife passed away. He has been dating with moderate success with some matchmaking help from my wife. Now to the crux. If we ever made this hotwife or 3some thing a reality, She would like it to be with T. I have full faith in her and trust her completely. And there is something really hot and exciting about her getting the opportunity to scratch an itch that’s been there for 25 years. I would love to see her experience, the pleasure that she had fantasized about for so long. We have talked about it and I don’t really have any fear that she would ever try and explore this as a romantic long-term relationship or that she would choose someone else over me. The three of us joke around about the two of them having had this constant sexual tension and the innuendos fly! Lol. Wondering if anyone has had a similar experience and tried this. I do worry if he might catch feelings again. We wouldn’t want to jeopardize the friendship she still has with him. When he decided to stay in his marriage after my wife’s divorce, she was a little miffed and any long-term plans of being together with him kind of died there. However, she is still attracted to him and would like to fulfill that fantasy if we ever crossed the line. If anyone has read this far, thank you and do you have any advice?