So my wife and I have been a Hotwife couple going on 10 years. She almost always plays solo and always records and has had several long term playmates.

The current guy she has been playing with for just over four years. Every encounter has been recorded and they have had a lot fun.

He just asked for the first time to do a sleepover with her staying at his house(she always goes there to play currently).

My wife and i have discussed it lightly multiple times in past asking each other what the benefits would be for us as a couple. Even now, I'm still trying to think of fun things to think about that could make it worth trying, but more than anything, I don't see how a sleepover adds any fun for US. She would have fun of course, but there would be no reclaiming fun and I wouldn't see her until the next day.

So my question is...am I missing some fun scenarios that make sleepovers so appealing? What's some fun ways of looking at it? Or ideas I could run by her to make it still about us.