Been in the ls for almost a couple years now, only had a few experiences as we don’t make this a “must have” in order to stay happy with one another. So still learning to navigate everything.

When we first got into it, my wife had mentioned finding a certain guy she knows to be very attractive, and feeling that she might if caught him checking her out before. I meet him as well and can say he is very respectful!

She knows his ex-wife so decided to pass on trying to flirt with him. Fast forward to today, she doesn’t have much communication with her, or him, but they share friends.

Don’t want to get into specifics, but he randomly reached out to have my wife help him with a project. She agreed but asked for his help in return on something she’s working on. They’re both small projects so not like they are going to spend a ton of time together, but a reason for them to communicate has opened up….

Now his ex is re-married, he’s single, they share 2 kids. We tend to stay private as we don’t want everyone aware of what we’re into. But also she hasn’t had time to find a playmate as work has been busy. I’m also ok with her having solo dates btw.

Should she drop some hints that she’s into him and willing to fuck…? Or just move along. What’s others experiences with this kinda situation?

I personally say to go for it as I don’t feel he’ll go running his mouth to his ex…🤷🏻‍♂️