TL;DR - Go to second to last paragraph.

We are both 52 and HS sweethearts. Wife is going with me to Vegas soon for a convention of mine and we have a couple of nights alone. We’ve been to Vegas over 20 times over the years. We’ve been married 28 years.

She’s often mistaken for 10 years younger and she’s really beautiful. I’m well above average but who cares, right? LOL.

For several years we’ve gone to LS clubs (we’re soft swap / voyers) and strip clubs. We’ve even hired escorts in Vegas and been to the Chicken Ranch twice. She absolutely loves women.

We don’t use online services like SDC - it makes us nervous because of our professional jobs to use them. Yes, I know it limits our opportunities. She likes things to happen organically and doesn’t like “planning” by finding and meeting people online.

I’ve only recently told her that I have a fantasy to watch her from afar at a nice bar to see her flirt and to see if a man tries to pick her up. She’s actually interested. Her interest is somewhat surprising because she’s always into women.

We both don’t think we want it to go past flirting or maybe dancing and groping? I want to watch. She thinks it will be thrilling to dress up sexy/slutty and see what happens.

I’ve done extensive reading and research on this group and I haven’t seen the information I’m seeking:

Where do you recommend that is upscale/elevated that’s not a swing / LS club, that ideally is NOT in a popular casino (ie: not Caesars, Venetian, Paris, Wynn, etc) where we won’t run into colleagues where we can live out this fantasy that you would recommend?

I know this is a very restrictive ask and we realize nothing may happen but the chance of it happening is part of the thrill. When I say upscale, we don’t want a pub, cheesy touristy place. TYIA.