My partner and I have been in open discussions about going ahead with her getting with other people.

Communication has been absolutely key. Especially as her background is she is very reserved. She has only slept with 2 people (we are both 35 and 32). And I absolutely don’t want to press her on the idea, I want it to be natural.

What are some good questions to ask your partner to help open up the mind about this kink, whether it is pro for it or even against it.

What are some questions you asked or were asked that helped you get on the same page as your partner?

I want ensure that we have covered as many corners as possible and I think there is a lot of value getting feedback from people who have experienced this kink already.