This is a shared account, husband writing (but my wife may be involved in commenting if there is interest)

I opened up to my wife over a year ago about my hotwife desires. She was pretty surprised by it, & really struggled to understand things in the beginning. It really looked like it would never go anywhere for some time. I was patient with her, and not too pressing on the subject. I would bring it up, carefully, now and then when we were out, mentioning how much attention she received from men. It turned into something she enjoyed, that she was admired and desired so consistently.

We began role playing situations and watching hotwife centric porn. She opened up about some fantasies she had for a long time, like a fantasy that men broke into the house when I was away and had their way with her. Bringing up hotwifing really brought us so much closer and opened up lines of communication that were new and exciting and open and free.

After some time, she was open to talking to guys online and doing some sexting. She enjoyed it & decided we could look for a man to fulfill our now shared fantasy. In searching, she became discouraged by men’s behavior and mindset on many occasions, to the point that she wanted to stop looking. It took a mental and emotional toll on her.

Here is where things go from zero to one hundred.

Over this past weekend, she chatted with a Redditor she met in this subreddit. She really vibed with this man & they had a very in depth conversation about hotwifing. It ignited her interest again, & honestly made her extremely horny regarding the idea. She told me that she really wanted to get “over the hump”, so to speak, and do it.

During this time that she was taking a break from the idea, I was separately vetting local men online. The type of man she is looking for, requires a long vetting process. In this time, I had a few men who stood out, and we had very long conversations. I showed these to my wife, & she really connected with one man in particular. I messaged him & told him, and he and my wife chatted for over 2 hours. She told me that he was the one. I suggested we all go out for drinks that very night (last night!). She agreed!

She dressed in a completely sexy little black dress with heels, and looked & smelled absolutely amazing. We met the man for drinks at a local bar. She was very nervous on the drive, but I reassured her we were not, at any point, committed to anything at all.

The man was a complete gentleman, and set her at ease immediately. We had terrific conversation. It was extremely comfortable and “normal”. We talked for almost two hours and then the man excused himself and said he had purchased a hotel room in a nearby upscale hotel. He said he would go back there, and there was no pressure for us to come, though he hoped to have us as his guests. He bought us a final round of drinks, and left my wife and I to process things and discuss.

My wife told me that he seemed perfect for her, and that she wanted to go to his hotel together. This is a moment I will never forget, that step into action.

We finished our drinks & discussed boundaries & our safe phrase, and then we headed to the hotel. We walked into the hotel, feeling like teenagers doing something wrong, in that exhilarating way where wrong is what you need.

We knocked on his door, & he opened it, and we walked inside…