Yes I know. This is a very popular topic and a frequently asked question. And that's exactly why we should talk about it!

I think all of us had a very specific idea in our heads before we actually put things into practice. And I think in most cases the reality deviated from the idea in one way or another. That doesn't necessarily have to be negative. There is now space for your stories. I'll start:

1. Performance issues:

In my idea, our guest and I plessured my wife the whole night with rock hard tools. Well performance issues are a thing in reality. Nerves can get in the way and little physical problems require patience. We experienced performance issuses on my side as well as with our guests.

1. Taking turns instead of same time:

In my idea, I imagined our threesomes like the perfect MFM Threesome porn. With all these threesome positions. Various spitroast positions, double blowjobs and so on. Especially our first few experiences were a little different from that. We were taking turns on my wife a lot mor than those "real" threesome stuff. We did this as well but it was like mybe 20/80. But that wasn't bad at all. It was just different from what I've imagined.

1. There is no script:

Don't get me wrong here. You shoulf definately define boundaries and hard Nos. But within the defined framework everything should be able to unfold smoothly and natural. Most of us guys/husbands/boyfriends have a script in mind. Like "we want to start with this, then we do this and after that our guest have to finish like this". Like for our first time we wanted my wife to finish our guest with blowjob so that he cum on her boobs. But guess what: It didn't happened that way 😄😄