I have had this fantasy for a while and I’d be very much a supporter to make it a reality. I told my wife a while ago of my fantasy and she initially hated the idea, she now likes the fantasy but says she’d never do it in reality (that’s 100% fine for me, it’s only hot if it’s something we both want).

She said a while ago about her and an ex who made a porno together, at the time she was 18 (now early 30’s) and her bf at the time was about 10 years older. I’d love to see it and make her watch it while I either go down on her or take her from behind.

My wife does talk about her past sexual encounters which I find incredibly hot, maybe it’s because she doesn’t have to get with anyone else but I still know about how she was satisfied by someone else.

My wife says I’m the biggest she’s had, and I have no reason to disbelieve her, however, I love the idea of her talking to an ex to discuss what he thought and felt, and what would make it even more hotter would be a photo of his cock. I don’t know why but seeing what satisfied her gets me intrigued and turned on!

My wife wouldn’t message an ex, and I get why, I wouldn’t expect her to either. She says it would bring back to much many bad emotions due to the way things ended , plus she wouldn’t want to be seen in that light (possibly looking like a cheat, due to not mentioning the fantasy)

Anyone else in a similar situation where their wife likes the fantasy but not reality, and wonder about her hot past due to it being a time where she really had someone different?