Hello everyone. We have been married for 9 years and together for 14 years. I am 37 years old and she is 35 years old. I have had this fantasy for about 7-8 years and we have been talking it for 2 years. We found a candidate in November last year, we all met together once and wife went out with him twice. After their date they made out in the car. During this period wife’s appetite for sex increased incredibly we had sex every day. Wife was texting, sexting and sending nudes eachother every day and every time. Then we have discovered something about the guys and we ended it. Later wife texted with a few more men but she left the finding a new one. She is reluctant at the moment and doesnt want to talk about hotwifing now. She has changed her job and her responsibilities increased at home and at work. A couple days ago she asked if we should try it with couples instead of single man. Do you think this process normal? How should i proceed?