So over the last few years we’ve been getting into the LS with several experiences along the way but over the last 9 months my wife has managed to find a regular which has been great. He’s a great guy, very respectful of us both and fair to say that things just work.

It’s been really interesting to see how things have evolved over time and I guess the main reason for positing is to say to others that it’s ok to ‘go with it’s and see where you end up.

Originally I didn’t like the idea of a long term arrangement but now I see it has so many benefits. Also, I’ve noticed that my preferences have changed from what they used to be in that I’m definitely enjoying some teasing and hearing my wife saying how much better he fucks her. Our sex life is better than ever and I now love being told as we’re fucking that in smaller etc.

Key takeaways for me are that whilst it’s so important to set out rules/boundaries, it’s also really important to let these change over time where you both see fit (and are both in agreement).

Also, last night was a big moment in that she took it up the ass with him for the first time. This isn’t something that she’s into and we’ve only tried together once before years ago. She’s really pushing her boundaries and getting a real kick out of being his little fuck toy.