After a not bad some years of experience as a 3rd guy “Friend” I can tell that the most successful way into this lifestyle is to be a really nice person in everything by following these tips: 1- Good taking care of yourself first to look nice and attractive because the title of the book is very important. 2- Nice talker , to get their attention and don’t feel that you are an alien 👽 Keep in mind that there is a lot of new couples just start to dip their toes in this life, please don’t give them a hard starting time. 3- Be honest in every single word you are saying “Be A MAN”, even if you don’t like to share something “married,single, work….etc” , this is the shortest way to get their trust. 4- Respect ✊ everything, respect the boundaries, the rules and the persons, especially the husband who has shared his wife with you, it doesn’t mean he should be “cu…ky” because he is sharing even if he has that kink let him started it not you, and of course respect yourself don’t be “Bu..l”. Be a good friend 5- Last be a champ 💪🏾on the bed “you have the control” and give the queen what does she deserve because SEX is main thing in this lifestyle and give her husband a good show time if he just want to watch. And once you gave them what they were looking for, treat her as a Lady and Gentleman. Thanks and hope I haven’t missed anything.