My husband found me a good 3rd that I met up with 2 weeks ago. That following week my husband asked me if he was interested in being a regular 3rd and if he was free to do this again. He said yes but not til next week (which is this week) and we agreed to meet today at 730pm. I always check in with my husband bc this is his kink but very happy after doing this for a year and a half that I found someone I’m comfortable with. Today he just isn’t feeling up to it but he agreed / wanted us to do this again. And says we should take a little break from it. I say okay and cancel on the dude but state that if we can reschedule and apologize. I guess my main thing is I’m worried that the next time my husband wants to do this, the current guy we found won’t be up to it because we canceled on him tonight and I’m personally done finding/ trying this with different guys, When we finally found a good one! Has anyone gone through this? Any thoughts from the husband’s or third’s?