First time posting here, long time reader/commenter. My (39m) wife (41f) had gotten into the lifestyle a while back but have been away for months due to injury. We recently decided to get back into to it and see what is out there. She’s been building up with a potential from Feeld who is into MFM, more on that in another post.

Her ex had hit her up recently on FB, my wife told me about it and was curious why. She found out he had recently divorced. She said she only wanted to be friends. I teased her that if they should meet in person; I wouldn’t mind if they made out 😘 she said she wouldn’t get involved with him again.

Fast forward another few months, I’m traveling for work and he invites her over for the first time to catch up in person. I was excited by this and teased “remember, you don’t have to hold yourself to what you said before…” she laughed it off and said nothing would happen except he’ll probably try to grab her butt (she has a really nice ass). I played that she should let him.

That visit she told him about the lifestyle; he thought that meant she was there to bang, but she wasn’t. He expressed interest and excited like a teenager, but nothing happened except some butt touching, haha.

When I come back from my trip, he invites her over again except his kids won’t be there (2 weeks since her first visit). We talk about it. I’m obviously wanting something to happen but also want him to treat her right. The reason she was hesitant was his immaturity and self-centered attitude from when he was younger. She wasn’t expecting him to change since she still saw hints of it when they would talk.

I stayed home watching the kids while she went out. I was super excited thinking of the possibilities and didn’t really think anything would happen. After the kids are in bed, I’m studying for school and notice that it is past midnight and I haven’t received any updates. My mind starts to wonder, maybe she fell asleep, maybe she fell asleep after sex…. Then she calls me and wants to talk as she drives home. She starts telling me how his attitude was completely different. She talked about the lifestyle and what it meant to her. He was very receptive and she decided to move forward. They started making out and she thought they would do that and get touchy-feely.

After making out a bit, he undoes her bra and takes off her shirt. He starts on her breasts switching from one to another. She undoes her pants to get more comfortable and he takes this as a queue that she is ready for more. He tells her that he’ll help her with those, takes them off and sees her sexy panties. He can’t help himself And takes her panties off and goes down on her. This surprised her but she was into it, and was surprised he was good at it.

From there he things got crazy, she positioned herself to grind her hips. This turned him on so much. She asked him if he wanted to have sex that she brought condoms. He didn’t hesitate and asked her to grind on him the same way she was moving her hips. he then pulled her on top of him, her grinding and him moving her up and down by her ribs. He rolled her over on her back and got on top, pulling her into each thrust. He didn’t want to cum yet and slid down off the bed then pulled her by her leg to the edge. He is short, so had to pull her butt off and hold it while thrusting. He then put her legs straight in the air, crossed them, held them with one hand and used the other to pull her into him. He had to check the condom after that, thought he came…

Put another on and got behind her. He pushed down on her middle lower back. My wife was feeling good by now and super surprised that he knew what he was doing. He pulled her hair and she gasped “oh, shit!” He thought he hurt her but she said it was a good oh shit… with each thrust, he pushed her lower and lower on the bed until he was leaning forward on her. She doesn’t know how long it went but she finally had to stop because she was so sore.

They lay together talking before she finally told him she had to go. He begged her to stay the night (she could if she wanted), but she was eager to get back to me and reconnect. While she was gathering her things, he grabbed her ass with both hands and started kissing it, saying he was going to miss it…

She called me on her way home, but had trouble telling me everything. Both because of her memory, the surreal experience, and she kept feeling like he was listening. She got to wear they made out. So I was thinking, “man, what a good night. It went better than I expected.” Little did I know….

When she got home, she was all over me asking me if I could smell him (yes I could). When we got to the bed, she told me everything in as much detail that she could (later gave me more detail). I was floored with ecstasy and turned on more than I can express. She got on top of me and came super fast. Then she climbed up and straddled my face. I ate her out until her injury was bothering her. Flipped her over with her ass in the air and said “he had you like this?!?!” Which she said “yes.” I told her “he was so lucky to have you, you’re so beautiful!” I felt a testosterone rush, “he put his hand here?” “Yes!” “And pulled your hair?” “Yes!” I was wild with excitement “and he fucked this good?!?!?” “No!” I made her cum again before flipping her over and getting on top to finish which was slower and more intimate.

She has a date lined up with another from Feeld app, we meet him tomorrow (initial meeting) and will plan a sex date from there. I’m loving this lifestyle and the compersion. I know plenty in this lifestyle steer clear of feelings, but our dynamic is open to poly situations as well. I hope you all enjoyed.