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My husband and I are new to this and not sure how to get started to find people in our area but also be discrete. How do you get to know people and figure out the next steps in the process of finding thirds or couples?
We like going to the LS clubs. We have found that husbands with hall passes are more reliable than single men. We have been stood up and ghosted by single guys. The clubs usually weed our the pic collectors and fakes.
We used an app called Feeld & I’m not sure if it’s just a uk based one but another called fab swingers. My bf was the one that did the searching & when he found a few he would show me. I would then choose a few from that list and would message them to see who I vibed with a bit.
Being discreet most of them you can search in areas away from your home & I found that when someone is looking for a couple they are happy to travel a little if you can host them.
Haven’t tried any of the clubs yet, definitely want to soon. I would say from my experience as a Hotwife, it would be a very good place to just go and chat with others in a no pressure type environment:)
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