Why is every single kink dominated by men? Why is everything centered in the man's pleasure? Why, even in literal hotwifing, is the focus ALWAYS on the man's pleasure?????????? Can women ever be the center? I'm starting to think most men are incapable of centering another person's needs or wants over their own. I'm just so fucking glad that my husband wants an empowered, sexy wife who's pleasure is just as important as his own, if not more. He puts so many of you to shame. I guess I just really lucked out in that department.

Would any other hotwives be interested in a subreddit just for us to focus on this kink? This sub and all the sad misogynists in here turn me off this lifestyle and just make me angry and remind me that the majority of men only want a bang maid, not an equal partner with thoughts and opinions of their own. And then wonder why she's not interested?!?!?! Anyways, those are my thoughts at 4 am lol let me know if anyone would be interested!!