Hi everyone, hotwife husband here in need on some opinions.

For backstory, wife and started hotwifing 2 years ago, we love it but we’re extremely discreet due to our careers. Not necessarily that we’d get into trouble, but that the job we have while professional is essentially a high school gossip club as well, everyone knows everything about everyone because no one can keep their mouths shut.

Now onto the story for advice; I love love love watching my wife take it, she loves taking it (insane sex drive) and loves me watching and joining. We’ve done 1:1 and threesomes with plenty of men and it’s great. But something she’s been hinting at recently is me setting her up for a gangbang. I love it and I’ve wanted it for a while so that’s good. But problem is the people to join. Only reliable place is work. A LOT of her coworkers want to sleep with her and honestly there’s a bunch I’d let do it regularly if we weren’t discreet. What makes it great is there’s a bunch of people that she wants to sleep with as well. So from work we could easily get 8-10 willing and able studs to join. Plus some of them don’t like me personally so I know they’d really give it to her as an f you to me lmao. But problem for both of us is the discression portion. So from more experienced couples I ask; what are the pros and cons of allowing people to know and for it be out in the open? Does it make it more fun? Is it easier? Is it harder? What would you do in this case?

For reference to the “don’t shit where you eat” population; we are moving across country soon so we’d never be associated with this place again anyway, but the friends we do have here would forever know what we do. But still, hard ball to juggle with. And the reason we considered work is cause the population is there. We’ve been on tinder, 3fun, hinge, Reddit, and FetLife and all those apps usually have nude seekers, flakes, or in some cases creeps.