So the wife and I have a favorite third. We have only been hanging out for 3 months but in that time we have experienced a lot. We have had some crazy nights of sex, some crazy nights of disagreements because of alcohol. We've grown passed issues and generally have great chemistry and fun times together.

When we first started playing I warned him not to catch feelings because my wife is easy to fall in love with. She is gorgeous, smart, very very sexual, and literally every guy she dates gets hooked and falls for her. So I warned him to be careful and to take his time. Spend less time around her without me, not that they spent a lot but like once a week he would come by and say hi or get his hair cut.

So last weekend we had an amazing night. Sex for hours and hours. Almost 10 total over a 20 hour period. And yesterday he writes to say that he wants to take things to the next level with our relation and to grow it further. He said he wanted to talk to both of us about it face to face so that he makes sure he gets the words right and understood.

Now we have said from the beginning that we wanted no emotions involved other than friendship because it's just not what we want or are looking for. However, if I am honest, I would really miss our times together. I have grown to really really like our group as it stands but I can't let emotions with my wife come into play as it's just not for us. But breaking things off because of his emotions seems hard. It will be hard to stop and just say it's over.

Anyone have any experiences like this? How did you deal with them?