We our married with children. Been together for almost 13 years. I brought up my fantasies of sharing her with another man more than a year ago and since then we have slowly become more comfortable with the thought of it. At most, she added her old fuck buddy from 14 yr ago on social media and chatted with him a bit. Innocent convo. Then we had sex while she talked to me about how they fucked all over his dorm room when she would go visit. Now she will tell me she saw a hot guy at the grocery store and wishes she could have fucked him, and stuff of this nature. We have made no serious moves and we aren't really sure how to. People on Reddit can be too weird and when we finally think we found someone, they ruin it last minute with doing something that turns us both off.

What are some ideas to bring someone into the bedroom, or even have her and a man touch each other without going ALL THE WAY.

ONE of our hang ups is, SHE wants it to be someone we know or a friend. I want it to be a stranger that we "get to know". She isn't completely set on this but she does say she would be more comfortable with it being someone we know. I just don't think we should bring a friend into this. THOUGHTS??? ADVICE?? Your personal experience??