Hello y'all! I felt like starting a conversation again and hearing experiences and opinions from like-minded people.

So basically the title: What was the most suprising thing for you when starting the lifestyle? Like what totally surprised you, both positively and negatively? What did you never expect? And was there anything that caught you off guard?

I'll go first. It's probably no big deal and definately nothing completely out of the ordinary, but I was so amazed at how relaxed and natural my wife suddenly acted in the situation during our first MFM. You have to know that my wife has always been rather shy and sexually completely vanilla. And one of our biggest worries was whether she would be able to overcome this with two guys at once or whether it would be too much for her and she would not be able to enjoy it because of nervousness and fear can surrender. And some negative feelings such as guilt and remorse actually came afterwards.

BUT during the threesome, when when it finally started, she was completely different. I never expected this. She behaved so naturally, as if it were the most normal thing in the world. As if we had always done something like that and as if it was nothing special that she had sex with another guy for the first time in years. Or that she was giving a blowjob right infront of me.

I've never expected it would go so well!