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hi all

have had HW fantasies for a very long time. Five years ago we went to a swingers club when on a trip. No swapping but some room play w another couple

fast fwd few years. Covid. Then marital problems. I wasn’t in shape, and other things resulted in her initiating dead bedroom for couple of years. (‘Mid 40s both of us )

Then last year she cheated on me on a trip w a younger guy. She was planning on divorcing me and did this fling due to sexual frustration on one hand an on the other hand was gonna telll me only once she served me

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but my reaction. It changed things for us and her. I understood her reasoning why the cheating happened. But it also turned me on. I effed her brains out and sex has been insane since. We’ve been working on the marriage etc.

well. She also confessed how she’s kissed guys when she’d be traveling. No sex but making out. The thrill etc.

post cheating I’ve taken the liberty to snoop on her devices and found old journals how she flirted w some younger guy during the time we tried the swingers club and she noted how if she was to have a thresome that guy would def be it.

ive opened up my fantasy to her. No separate play Same room. MFM to start. Then watch. But all this time she’s been saying she “doesn’t want another penis in her besides mine “. Give me a braeak lol. you literally cheated and journaled about the sex.

I know in reality a hall pass on separate play would be ideal to her. But I want together play only. Told her this.

I also got in really good shape now and she’s now wanting me more and told

me she’d be jealous of me being w another woman. I never make this my focus but I def don’t want to be just one sided play . I do want to try other women. And she has some bi tendencies also - did kiss a woman With same room play earlier when we did the club.

How to move now ? Club on a trip ? Pickup a third on a trip ? What about the no other penis line ? How do we coax this line to get crossed ?

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Thank you

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