I made a post earlier asking for advice and tips and surprised how many people are telling me not to try the lifestyle, so I wanted to give some back story and my reason for the interest. First off me and my wife have been together since we were young we've always had a good sex life but with most things in life therr can always be more. I think my wifes extremely hot and I like showing her off and the idea of sharing her is hot to me. She likes being shown off and likes the comments on pics ect we just weren't sure how to go forward while keeping our privacy and trying to find a way to start slowly preferably with someone/couple with experience possibly its still pretty new to us so we are a little stumped on how to find like minded people locally. My wifes still hesitant but only because she doesn't want to do something that can't be undone and it be soemthing we end up not being into. I'm sure this is common for most people starting out and wanted to hear about others experiences. I know not all experiences will be positive and we go into it with no expectations just to try it and see go from there.