Hi,

Lifestyle couple here(early 40’s). We’ve been in the lifestyle for a few years. Never posted anything online before in the community but decided it could be fun to start sharing, hearing other stories and answering questions too.

Last year my wife started getting a bit bored with guys around her age and older. Lots of baggage and often she felt like they wanted more but didn’t admit to it. Whereas she just wanted good sex.

She decided to try tinder again and was curious if she’d match younger men still now that she’s in her 40’s(she’s 43). She got endless matches. This was the first time she’d really explored the cougar/cub dynamic. She felt a bit weird at first meeting up with a guy who was 25. They texted for a while and he knew her situation. Then met for drinks. She said he was very confident and smooth for a younger guy. They did get a few looks but after a while stopped caring. It was a little strange going back to his apartment which wasn’t very nice, especially after being with affluent men with very nice houses. But once they started fucking she said it was totally worth it. And loved how after cumming they could go again a few more times.

She’s only been seeing younger men since , usually around mid 20’s, been some younger too and some guys in their 30’s. She said there’s so many perks to younger men, and that she’s still able to get attractive men in their prime is really hot. She seems to get off on that age gap taboo too.

A lot of these guys have pretty shitty apartments or live with roomates so often she’ll just get a hotel room. Although a guy earlier this year had a really hot roomate that she would have loved to sleep with too.

It’s definitely sexy knowing all these younger dudes are so into my wife. Before this lifestyle she had only been with a select few guys that were mostly boyfriends.

Just wanted to share some of our recent experiences.

Looking forward to hearing from you all in this fun community