This was originally a comment I made on another post, but I now see that this topic deserves its own post, so I've slightly reshaped it:

Flirting and sharing pics online can be safe and fun. You won't be recognized and might become much more daring than in real life. And if things go south, you can easily block your playmates with a few clicks and never hear from them again.

However, this is only true if you can maintain your privacy. Just remember, it's about more than just hiding your face in pics. Here are some things to keep in mind:

1. Stick to one communication channel that can't be traced back to you. Reddit chat sucks, and you might want something better. If you want to use WhatsApp or Signal, use a throwaway phone number or create a virtual one. Or opt for apps like Snapchat, where you can create an anonymous account not linked to your real identity.
2. Never show your face, tattoos, or scars in photos or videos. Never! You can crop photos and blur or cover your faces and other unique details. Get to know a few features of your phone's photo app; it's easy. If you're sharing a video, blurring your face may be more complicated. Consider wearing a full-face mask. Pick something stylish, and you won't look odd. Snapchat Lenses could be a fun option if you're using the app.
3. Be cautious about what's visible in the background of your photos/videos. Ensure nothing can reveal your location, like the inside of your home. And avoid having other people in the frame, except for those you want to participate.
4. Be mindful of any distinctive jewelry or clothes you wear.
5. Avoid making photos that may look similar or connected to what you share on Instagram and other social networks that show your identity;
6. Follow a strict "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy regarding personal info. Avoid discussing anything that could disclose your real identity. Your playmates don't need to know if you have children, your birthday, where you work, or similar details. They don't even need to know your city. There might be exceptions, but be clear on why you're sharing specific information. For instance, I recently role-played a scenario with another couple where sharing our professions was needed for realism, but that was a rare exception, and we knew what we did. Resist sharing unnecessary details about your daily life. Went to a party recently? You can mention it, but skip the specifics, like the location. Don’t mention restaurants where you had dinner. And things like that.

Does this sound too complex or paranoid? Not really. With time, it can become second nature. It’s like wearing a condom when having sex with a stranger in a sex club.

PS: Experienced folks, what have I missed that is worth mentioning?