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I want to hear your stories of how you got into the hotwife lifestyle. Who initiated it? What turns you on the most about it?

For me and my wife, I was the initiator. But she pushed the limits to break "rules". (Which I was fine with) I had set rules of 1) no going to play alone, 2) no kissing (I felt it was too intimate, and wanted it to be a reserved thing for just me and her), 3) no blow jobs (her rule, set by her. I didn't care), 4) condoms always for other guys

We played with couples and did the swinging LS for a while, but it always seemed like one of us would have to take one for the team so to speak. Then one day she wanted a tall dark and handsom guy...I looked and looked, and none were "good enough". So I told HER to look, and she found one very easily and quickly. Like it was the 1st one she clicked on. 🤔 after that, it was off to the races. 😂 the first day, she wanted to go on a date with him alone. I allowed it, but said no "sex". Well, she wanted to play, and a hand job isn't "sex". I got so hot thinking about it, I told her she should just kiss the tip while he was driving and send me a pic. She did, but before they got to their destination, she was blowing him. (She always told me she hated giving blow jobs 🤷🏻‍♂️) a few days later, it was another "date", but with me present. He treated her like a queen, and was highly respectable to me. We all 3 got a hotel room together. We'll, he claimed to not have any condoms. BUT I had prepared for that! 😉 I brought my favorite kind, and offered him one. I said "no problem man. Here"...he tried to put it on, but it would have been WAY too tight on the base. Like, the ring wouldn't go over the head of his cock. He tried, she tried, no dice. So she looked at me and shrugged and said "I guess no sex tonight, so we just wasted our money on this hotel room. I took her aside and whispered "if u want to go bare, then go for it. Do u trust him?" She replied "he showed me his last std test from 2 weeks ago, the other day". So I said ok, go for it. They fucked right beside me while I jacked off. It was SO hot! I got sloppy seconds, and got immediately addicted to that. LoL within 2 weeks, there were no longer any rules. She wanted alone play with him while I was at work. I found it hot af, so I allowed it and walked around at work with a constant hard on and precum filling my pants all day. 😂

We no longer play with that guy, but want to. He got a new gf who wasn't in to swinging. 🤷🏻‍♂️

So, what's your story?