Me and my girlfriend have only had one long term 'bull'/third so far, for quite a few months now, and I don't think the dynamic for us would feel the same or as good if there wasn't a seniority difference. He's 52, over 30 years older than me and her, and it seems to naturally lend itself to making me and my girlfriend feel more submissive towards him. It helps that she has a bit of a thing for older guys, but only sexually. I wanted her to fulfill her fantasies of being with one, seeing as me and her have been together since highschool and are each other's firsts sexually.

Because we are first timers with him, he has been able to guide us through our very first experiences and through the complexity of it. It helps that he ticks all our boxes outside of his age; charming and courteous, genuinely wants me and her to be happy together while we indulge in this with him, confident and knows his way around a woman's body, better endowed than me and physically larger (taller and more muscular). He has done some 'firsts' with her as well, which was incredibly hot, though maddening, to see. He goes bare with her and finishes inside her, as before our first session with him he provided us with test results. Though I sometimes fantasise about what if he had been the first guy to go bare with her, rather than me. We have also had our first MMF threesomes with him too, in which he has fulfilled our fantasy of trying out DP, though it was a logistical effort for sure. Luckily, he did set realistic expectations for it beforehand! Still blew our minds though.

I almost feel a certain deference to him, like I respect and admire him so much that he deserves to please and take pleasure in the girl I love and show her what experienced men can do. He seems really appreciative of us too, as if he feels lucky.

Why does this dynamic work so well and feel so natural, or are we just a specific case? Have you guys been in similar situations? And for any bulls here, have you been in similar situations? What have been your largest age gaps and did they turn out well or no?