Need some advice on managing nerves as da third. Recently met up wit a hotwife and struggled to get hard or stay hard once I got there. Hubs didn't get nearly enough pics/vids to make it worth it and wife didn't get any sex. Granted it was supposed to be just head, but evolved into them both being comfortable wit sex happenin'. There were moments I was startin' to really grow when my hands and mouth were all over her, but it was just takin' too long to get completely erect.

I'm fully aware couples are absolutely brimming wit they own anxieties which makes a thirds job of performing really well all da more important and necessary. There's minimal risk for us single men engaging wit da lifestyle vs dating or married people so we should absolutely be bringin' it. I was ridiculously excited leading up to it as we had been chatting for awhile, then I got there and da nerves was just all over da damn place. Any thirds have a similar experience and got any tips?