I am not against it but I’m eager to get out there and she does like the added reassurance that a couple will be safer. The other issue is we both have sussed out our feelings but she has a bit of woman jealousy. She does want to explore that but I’ve always told her I’m capable of having sex with other women but my fantasy has always been her and other guys. Oddly I have no jealousy about another man but another woman also brings me feelings of jealousy (women could do what men can’t I suppose)

I am tabling the idea of a couple for now but wanted to know if anyone’s ever felt like I do. I want to be cool about it, but I want our first ENM experience to be great! Thanks!