My wife and I like to fantasize about her being with other men and me watching and coaching or directing then reclaiming or joining in. But we are unable to put a label on this and I was looking for some insight as to what this would be called because we don’t embrace the traditional dominant and submissive roles but I do love watching her get pleasured. I would like to look into this type of thing but honestly do not know what to call it. We don’t like humiliation and don’t want a bull per se either, and nothing I look up fits this or encompasses everything we’re looking for. Is there a term for this? Is it an offshoot of Hotwife or stag / vixen? Is it some type of interactive voyeurism? Sorry if this isn’t the place for this but it seems like the closest match with like minded people to give me some insight.